Calm and neutral synthesized Helix passage played over a steady bass line. It never worked, for 20 years it didn’t work, what a perfect plaything I was for him. This was shortly after I went No Contact. ~ Minna Thomas Antrim, 10. they make everyone else to take the risk if anything goes wrong. No, I wouldn’t be worried by the things on this list. they almost never pay to insure anything. [CDATA[ It's easy listening, calm and soft ⦠they hate you for saying that & they immediatly start a big fight with you. A lot of people have noticed the lack of any odor. We talked about travelling and I told him how I would like to visit the area he lives and he quickly told me to jump in a plane and visit him there, which I thought was weird at such an early stage. TOO MANY ISSUES. 9-they are always great friends with Gay man especially female Ps. 21. My ex P saved my hairs that shed in his house, for example on the couch, while we were courting. Many of them shower frequently and may even carry deodorant and an extra shirt. He acts to be more sexually aroused after his cleansing rituals. He behaves like he is smarter than anybody else and minimizes any good qualities in others. [CDATA[// < ! 2. i saw them in action many times. Quite funny if one extends the vampire analogy. He was a minister and works as an architect, which I think are common professions for Psychopaths. Their body language occasionally reads as âhaughty.â You will see flashes of it now and then and feel itâs out of character (another example of incongruity). [CDATA[ 7. It spells out all the things you have to deal with to recover. You are so right not to want to know. However… tomorrow, I am supposed to get everything from him at the train station in his town……I am sick to my stomach…and nerve wracked… I’m in a foreign country and he had complete control….I hired someone to come with me…to help me carry..and because I cant face this alone….I am a well educated 50 something woman with a long marriage behind me…. ( I left out all the details because he has done EVERY behavior mentioned on this page). // < ! And if I do get the nerve to go out I watch everything they do or say because I’m scared they could be one too. This is not a time waster activity. They will hurt you, because they can’t do anything else. Sorry about the spelling but spell check was broken temporarily. With our suite of kitting and fulfillment options, you can deliver messages to customers and employees worldwide through just one point of contact. So, why do we spell subtle with a B if we don’t say it? Which of the following is an antonym of subtle? I think he was trying to win…trying to keep me in his life. After he left he told me he was really happy he met me, that he was really happy I was the way I was and that he basically had a great time. You can read more here, if you like: The Most Powerful Motivator on the Planet ~ Intermittent Reinforcement, Intensity or Intimacy? Cold chilly days rev up his boredom by ten fold. On one day he may express deep sympathy for the plight of the homeless, and then on another, contemptuously question how anyone could become so “worthless.” Incongruity also manifests as the hot-cold-hot-cold âfeelingsâ they have for us, going from warm and interested to cold and insensitive. This pattern of incongruity is embodied in their demeanor and runs throughout all aspects of their behavior. As to his body language, I have noticed that sometimes his eyes looked completely without expression like glass or he had a really hard time even to smile at me. Then he walked away and didnât even look back. I will keep them coming! Can be a raised voice and energetic body language in a public place, notiecable primarily to the target. He confessed that he felt nothing when his mother was dying right before him at the hospital. // < ! my dog loved him. Ok, then, one of these days he told me to watch the scene of Maleficient movie where Angelina Jolieâs wings are cutt off. This vast abundance of bacteria represents a large proportion of the active bio-mass in marine environments. Has anyone else experienced this? I am very stable…scientist, great job…not rich but not poor. but the day he was treating me like crap and ignoring me after haveing me come to his house my dog who usually right beside him getting all the love he could from him wouldnt even go near him. [CDATA[ // < ! Incidentally, I believe all bank tellers should be heavily armed to protect themselves from worthless pieces of shit who can’t describe an emotion. Emotional and verbal abuse are abuse. 2. very flashy , boombastic. The clergy is a popular choice for psychopaths. [CDATA[ He’d hate to be touched, saying he was too hot, unless he wanted something. He’d say how ugly I was, so weird now, he had made it our normalcy. Many items could. // < ! The Deschutes River offers you many take off spots. You have a problem with anger! You're... CRAZY! 1998). He wasn’t looking at her, and he wasn’t looking at me, he was looking at both of us. He sounds dastardly, to the extreme. He did the creepy, predatory stare thing, very charming, he was definitely off..he mimic’ed emotions, didn’t respect boundaries. // < ! I’ll have to return to when I logged all that happened and will share here if anything further is revealed. There is absolutely nothing that could have alerted me as far as sex went, even in hindsight. He or she may contradict themselves from one sentence to the next, or it may take a few weeks or months for a completely different point of view to emerge. Tricia Clark, CPA Energy Group Member. While I was there with him this last time there was a time when he grabbed me in a rough way, I told him he was hurting me and to stop but he didnât. I picture Lady Vigilant on a large horse, wearing armor. your x is deffinetly the emotionally cool one & not a needy one. Psychopaths seek attention only because it’s part of a technique to get something else, a means to an end. too colorful decorating The example given in #1 is one possible manifestation of an overall pattern of incongruity, or contradiction, the psychopath displays. 6. Yes I ended it with him, but after he called and yelled at me and I mean yelled and said things to me that I wouldn’t think any person would ever say to another I hung up on him. [CDATA[ // < ! i ve been lost in the discusion about Pheromones that you & a reader had earlier.Depthness & Magnitute of that subject is Spooky ! [CDATA[ When psychopaths puts one over on you they experience duping delight, which is pleasure at manipulating you and having you within their control. Well, as the above origin shows, we didn’t always spell it with a B. He has no real sexual preference for one gender or another; he prefers sadism and pedophilia in porn probably due to the associated power rush. [CDATA[// < ! As is Joan’s comment about the twice a day showering. they are like a Kamikaze pilots & they are highly competent. For haughty, read ‘power’. I knew throughout the 2 years that he had a dark dark side… having done other discards with me that were shocking… but I was crazy about him…. Very calming and tranquil. One of the only emotions they can feel is “contemptuous delight,” which is duping delight — the sheer delight they feel at duping people they feel contempt for. I had read a blog from a woman whose husband and daughter were borderlines…terrified me. [CDATA[ // < ! He said he preferred me “natural” and that this is a compliment. All the best to you too. See what Tom Suttle (tdgsuttle) has discovered on Pinterest, the world's biggest collection of ideas. Hi Toots. He fits the description of POSTING FOR NEARLYBEL AS REQUESTED. 16. Asked if he ever felt his heart pound or his stomach churn, he replied, âOf course! also, in nano second they calculate risk in everything. This is interesting regarding body odor. That included losing the B, among other things, in Latin’s subtilis. Yes, definitely report if you have info that he has committed a crime. Well known, but I think this should be a warning sign as it’s so bizarre that it’s noticeable. He has made me not be able to trust men. He had sex with my underwear. [CDATA[// < ! He is not capable of feeling any gratitude even towards those who went out of their way to help him. I wonât forgive you for it⦠You led me to believe I was responsible.â ~ The Prize, Irving Wallace Most people experience... "I was addicted to a high that only my abuser could give me. I’m very sorry you got involved with this guy, Mar. the sex was amazing…. 1983). I’d be struggling to follow the directions of the worthless piece of shit as my mind was filled with thoughts of never seeing the people I love ever again, and with thoughts of their grief, and with thoughts of having all of my plans for the future and all that I worked for and all that I am as an individual obliterated by the senseless violence of some mindless, heartless automaton who doesn’t think my life has any value because he can’t understand the value of life. [CDATA[ And now, I visited him a third time in his country (and last time for me) because 36 hours is all he offers me and now he even says that it canât be 2 nights but only one (and this is considering I fly from one country to another spending at least 400/500 Euros for 36 hours). He has no respect for you at all, but that doesn’t mean you can’t have respect for yourself! // < ! [CDATA[ I regularly hear from people who want to know the difference between narcissists,...  "My mother, the most beautiful person in the world. The positive and upbeat mood makes it best suited for visual content focused on food, travel, or fashion. 2. Capture and call forth your gifts. There is no such thing as having a genuine, healthy relationship with a person who has this disorder. Fortunately I do have a letter from children’s services stating his name as a sexual perp and our daughter as his victim that I can use in court. // < ! hances are good that you... âIt is by going down into the abyss that we recover the treasures of life. I must add one thing that came into my mind now. I think there might be something to it. I would really appreciate if anyone has any insight/opinion on what I was dealing with. Why do they do this? Both happen to apply to my ex psychopath. I have thought of Psychopathy and Narcissism but I don’t know. Use the following steps while the person is calm, so that when out of control and having a "meltdown" (as it is commonly called), the individual will be able use these techniques to calm himself. And NO SMELL. // < ! Only had friends as long as they agreed with him. [CDATA[ Without background knowledge of how Ps react to ‘winning’ it just seems ‘odd’ and ‘bizarre’ and we’re left baffled. Then anyway, we got back talking and so many times when he is not available to talk he tells me that he wasnât answering because he was having sex with such and such. Some people ⦠// < ! I touched him with a packet of paper tissues on his head and he got really angry, he told me I have no empathy and that I am crazy, that that was really bad and that he is so sensitive to noise. I agree with the person that I have to learn how to forgive my self. Even if he does something nice there is no emotion involved. The world's oceans have been estimated to contain 1.1 × 1029 prokaryotic cells (Whitman et al. Alcohol and/or drug abuse seems to feature, but that might be because they feel so little that substances invoke colour. You know it when you see it! Whenever I call him he doesnât answer. I’ve been just pouring over and absorbing every bit of information about narcissism that I can lay my hands on. Thanks for your comment! // < ! [CDATA[// < ! Yuk yuk yuk Did hebuy me anything? This article included a whole new list of things to confirm my ex is a narc. It became all really nasty, basically. [CDATA[// < ! It is similar to a blind person trying to understand what others mean when they talk about color. // < ! If I was trying to speak logically, to seek a solution, he would belch in my face. #3 and #7 Using the example in #13, I’ll describe the fear I would feel as a bank teller, if some worthless piece of shit had a gun in my face: My physical feelings would be a pounding, racing heart and I’d be shaking uncontrollably all over as adrenalin pumped through me. Were you ready for a quiz on this topic? // < ! It’s the underlying motivation that’s completely different. They are still Myopic though. He said I made him run away, that how I could be so clingy at the airport, he said that I made him pay 3 Euros for parking at the airport when he wanted to go quickly. Or maybe you need time to realize that you have nothing to forgive yourself for. Got me pregnant too…which I think he did on purpose. [CDATA[ [CDATA[ That means 10 hammocks and stands can be ready for campers. Circumstances made me aware of his pre pubescent girl porn and other beyond disgusting stuff. 10- in business world they dont like to hold inventory of anything. He shared that he never cries. // < ! They can go from rage to complete calm in a minute. [CDATA[ i do have a question, about the pheromones, the man i was with said he loved my smell as he was at my neck, i asked what smell my perfume or my hair and he said no your smell, he said that everyone has a different smell and that he loved the way that i smelled. What are some words that share a root or word element with subtle? I asked him what he thought of me and he always answered that he doesnât like me fishing for compliments. The firm foundation we believed we stood on crumbled beneath us and we hang on, barely, in any way we... âYou saddled me with a lie I never deserved. LOL! [CDATA[ This is exactly the way it began for me, and for many others. | Contact Marilyn +1.248.348.1023 ET | Privacy Policy | Suttle Enterprises, LLC | Novi, MI 48375 | Marilyn@MarilynSuttle.com ⦠I like to know what people are thinking. women get ourselves away from such devils?But we are biologically transfixed on the ignorant male… HelP???? However, when I found out my ex husband of 11 years was leading a horrible double life, I did go to the police. See Synonyms at decide. // < ! He said they fight all the time and break up every day and that he hates make-up and that he fought with gf every day over her wearing make-up. Mine was a diagnosed sociopath…sexually abused as a child by another male child. I am so glad that this nightmare is over. Had he been cold and detached, sexually “weird” and obsessed with sodomy, I wouldn’t have stuck around. Anyone else have a P with perfect vision? 1993). He was so manipulative. It’s sad to think I had no clue what this man could be, he let me barrow money and even when I looked up stuff about psychopaths/sociopaths it always talked about how they used people for there money and that is the one thing I lack is money but it explains why he went back to his ex wife, money. // < ! I think mental illness ran in his family…his Mormon mother was extremely creepy and his son…my stepson had Asperger’s. But, around the 1500s, the English spelling of the word started adding back in the B to subtle so the word corresponded more clearly with its Latin root, subtilis. just honestly no smell. You can paddle along the Old Mill District and the outdoor Les Schwab Amphitheatre If youâd like to catch some live music. #20… A lot of us noticed that, Lily. 2-Foodies Thank you. He told me he was a sex addict and online game addict, that he is hostile, impatient, insatiable and he said he had met his âgfâ last October. I remember one night, this never happened to me before, he laughed at me for literally 2 hours, whatever I was saying or even just looking at me made him laugh. They seem to have caught your attention even while doing the most mundane thing, such as just standing on the other side of the room (and while not even seeming to notice you). It literally nearly killed me! There is a brush in every bag, car and room and he uses them, though vanity does not seem to be his motivation. 12. Extremely superficial and at times artificial. Want To Reclaim Your Power? He said things such as, âIâd give you the moneyâ; âIâd think of ways to get the drop on youâ; âIâd try and get my ass out of there.â When asked again how he would feel, not what he would think or do, he seemed perplexed. To resolve (a lawsuit or dispute) by mutual agreement of the parties rather than by court decision. mine ex P was a female and she had all of those symptoms…too bad I didnt’t know in a advance that such creatures exist …It wouldn’t be so hurtful for me ….Now Ps are extremely sexual aggressive …at least the girIs know – there are 2 Ps females that I know are ….it’s unbeliavable that girls are so sexual aggressive …I should ‘ve known something wasn’t right ..Anyways , people need to be made aware that such nasty people exist because they cause great emotional harm to normal people …. He also slept in his khakis and an undershirt, which I thought would be uncomfortable. It didn’t matter. If youâre walking down the street with a beau and he or she doesnât flinch when a car backfires, watch out. ~ Amanda Domuracki, Culture Shock, The... None of us wants to be involved in another abusive relationship. They invade your personal space.